My Disclaimer:
While Female Led Relationships can be extremely healthy, they are not going to fix your relationship problems. If your relationship is already struggling, the additional element of Dominance/Submission isn’t going to be your saving grace, just like having a baby, getting married or opening up your marriage won’t save a floundering relationship. If your relationship is experiencing troubles, stop reading this blog now and seek therapy to work on these troubles first, before even thinking about transitioning to a D/s dynamic.
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MOST likely, you are visiting my page in response to a conversation with the man in your life – your husband, your boyfriend, or someone you care about. If this is the case, congratulations, my dear reader! You are a lucky lady. Your partner loves you enough to want to involve you in one of his deepest, most personal desires. He trusts you enough to admit his most vulnerable needs to you. And he is ready to pamper you in the most romantic, doting ways you’ve ever longed for from a partner.
Your partner’s interests may baffle you. They may sound like an obligation to become someone you’re not. But honoring your natural instincts is what this is all about. You aren’t expected to put on an awkward show of being a dominatrix, complete with catsuit and whip. You won’t need to “fake it till you make it.” In fact, real life Female Domination occurs when you are in sweatpants, with no makeup on, wearing bath slippers and haven’t shaved your legs in a week. Real life Female Led Relationships are nothing like the porn and Hollywood versions. You are already your partner’s Domme.
The instant he confided his secret desires to you, he offered you the key to his soul. By exploring these concepts, you can learn to love and trust your partner even more deeply. You can do whatever you want, at whatever pace you are comfortable with. It’s a license to be yourself. You’ve been given a magic lamp. Your secret wishes are yours for the asking.
What would you like from your partner? If you want an extra round of sensual foreplay, it’s yours; if you want a cozy date night, just say so. What woman wouldn’t like this arrangement? Your partner hopes to show you the alluring potential of your inner power. You can choose to work with his tastes, or not. That’s the beauty of domination: you decide what is right for you. Stay true to yourself, honor your feelings, and you can never go wrong.
A VAST majority of all submissive men are some of the most powerful, manliest men you will ever meet. They are typically military solders, construction workers, police officers and CEO’s. The more powerful the man, the more likely he will be submissive. 6’4, 230 pounds of solid muscle and a UFC cage fighter, no question he’s submissive, and he has panties on under that suit.
The great benefit for women is that submissive men make the absolute best husbands. My girlfriends always make comments about how unbelievable my husband is and how they’re jealous of our relationship. If they could only see the private, nonpublic side of us, they would be reading every Femdom book ever published.
If you think this is a “phase” that will go away, I can assure you it isn’t. As men age, the need to express this part of themselves will dramatically increase. It triggers the exact same brain receptors as addictive controlled substances (think cocaine) produce feelings of pleasure. With drugs, the “rewarding effects” positively reinforce their use and increase the likelihood of repeated use. The rewarding effects of controlled substances involves activity in the nucleus accumbens, including activation of the brain’s dopamine and opioid signaling system. Sorry, I don’t what to go all, “professional psychologist” on you this early in my blog, but a submissive receives pleasure in an identical fashion. In simpler terms, remember this, if he is submissive, he is just “hard wired” this way.
When you think about how powerful an opioid addiction is, and you realize its basically the exact same “fix”, a submissive man is 1000% going to find a way to satisfy that need. Men are faced with few choices to solve this.
1) They can secretly seek out professional Dommes to fulfill their need to submit. It’s my opinion that most men WILL choose this option. I searched “Professional Dominatrix” in Google and received more than 26 million results. From the search result, you can obviously see there is a massive and secret demand for them. Most men are ashamed, embarrassed and fearful of exposing this part of their identity to their spouses that this becomes the easier option.
2) The other option is they can build up enough courage and ask their wives to fulfill this need. I hope this is the scenario you find yourself in. Now you just need to decide if you are going to fulfill this need for him.
If you are not willing, DO NOT continue to go down this path with him. Be clear and let him know its not something you feel comfortable doing. As a couple, the two of you will then have to decide on your next steps together.
If you decide that you want to be this person to fulfill this need , I encourage you to keep reading! I’m confidant that your relationship will grow to higher levels of trust, love and intimacy that fairy tales are made of.
I’m going to help you become more dominant and simplify the process for you, in a few hours of reading. If you decide that you are going to go down this path there are several things you must understand and do, otherwise you are setting yourself up for failure.
Female Led Relationships are actually quite easy. You dictate, he obeys! A man who wants to be in an Female Led Relationships wants to be controlled and wants to submit to your demands. Don’t make it more difficult than it is. Setting it up is the hard part, but after it is set up correctly, everything basically runs smoothly, with MINIMAL WORK FROM YOU.
I realize that this can be a daunting task for a woman new to female dominance and Female Led Relationships. My advice is to learn as much as you can and agree to a six-month trial period, and see if you like it. And during those six months, give it all you got! I’m rather confident that you won’t go back to the “old ways.”
These techniques don’t just benefit you at home. This will cause you to be more confident, powerful and successful in all aspects of your professional and personal life.
There are some things you MUST understand before you read any further.
You need to remember, I have been doing this for 27 years! It has taken time for me to gain this experience. A 55-year-old neurosurgeon has, “a little bit” more experience, than the 19-year-old Premed student taking A&P 101. I think we can both agree the Premed student can learn A LOT from an experienced neurosurgeon.
I’m going to give you tons of ideas and share my thoughts and experiences on Female Led Relationships. You are not going to implement all these things overnight. Take your time. Maybe take some of the things I give you and implement them tomorrow. In a few weeks, when you become more confident and comfortable, maybe you will implement some more. This is a MARATHON and not a 100-meter sprint.
I’m going to tell you things that completely defy all logic and everything you have ever learned about sex and relationships. Here are just a few examples:
I will teach you to withhold sex from your husband.
I will teach you to severely limit your husband’s orgasms.
I will teach you to discipline and punish your husband.
I will teach you to keep your husband sexually frustrated.
I will teach you to humiliate your husband.
I will teach you how to make your husband’s very infrequent orgasms, unpleasant.
And the best part is, the two of you will be more in love and closer than ever! Before you tell me I’m crazy, understand I have been doing this in my personal life for almost three decades. I have worked with dozens of couples in Female Led Relationships and I have a PhD in Psychology and I’m certified in Psychosexual Therapy in two states. I’ve been to DOZENS of Femdom workshops and I’ve paid for personal coaching with several different, well established Professional Dominatrixes. (Yes, you read that right, there are classes in EVERY MAJOR CITY that teach women everything I’m going to discuss with you)
The reason this may be unheard of to you, and even baffle you, is most people don’t publicly talk about their sex life and they tend keep their intimate details private. Submissive men have been hiding this part of their identity since early adolescence.
Men don’t sit around the bar and tell their friends that their wife has their penis locked up in a chastity cage and she gave him an 8pm curfew. (take a look on Amazon at the amount of chastity cages they sell; it will shock you!)
Men tell their friends embellished stories about how they, “drilled their wife,” for 90 minutes, as they each flex their testosterone levels.
I’m exaggerating but you understand my point. “Amanda” doesn’t go to lunch with “Sally” and say, “Tommy and I went to a class last night where I learned how to peg him properly.” No one tells the truth about their sex lives. Women are more honest with their friends than men, but even woman keep their most intimate details private.
Sorry, but I’m a psychology nerd, so you need to indulge me for just a moment and examine porn consumption:
“A study by Psychology Today in 2023 studied the amount of traffic to the highest globally ranked pornography sites (Xvideos and Pornhub) and learned that Americans visit porn sites at astronomical rates.
Using a set of metrics that includes indicators of monthly unique visitors as well as monthly pageviews, the authors found that the top pornography sites are more highly ranked than the most well-known household name sites (Amazon, Netflix, Yahoo) as well as those that are the most up and coming (TikTok, OpenAI/ChatGPT, Zoom).
Exactly how great is this disparity? In a word, huge. Pornhub, the top-ranked pornography site, had 700,000,000 more total visits than Amazon and 900,000,000, 1,100,000,000, 1,300,000,000, 1,500,000,000, and 1,800,000,000 more total visits than TikTok, OpenAI, LinkedIn, Netflix, and The Weather Channel, respectively.”
Take a second to think about this! Porn Hub averages TWO billion visits a MONTH! The 4th and 5th ranked porn searches are Femdom and Strap-on. Whenever a guy makes a “Pornhub or OnlyFans” joke everyone gets quiet, like they don’t know what he’s talking about, yet there are TWO billion monthly visitors.
What I want you to understand is, you MUST completely forget what you “think you know about Femdom” and learn what you “need to know.”
There are no “right or wrong” ways to Femdom, but the things I’m going to share with you have been proven effective in my well established, Female Led Relationship over the last 27 years. The easy part for you is all submissive men are different but they are ALL THE SAME.
Lets get started!
Step One:
Communication
You must communicate your wants and needs with your partner. A lack of communication will lead to a breakdown in the Female Led Relationship. This is often the most difficult parts to accomplish because most males have a hard time sharing these desires. I’ve been in a Female Led Relationship with my husband for more than two decades and we still discuss the relationship and our wants/needs once a month. I make him sit on the floor in front of me naked, “cris cross apple sauce” while I sit in my chair and have a glass of wine and we discuss what’s working and what’s not. You need to know what the answers are to the final exam. In simpler terms you need to know what he thinks about when he masturbates. (our in our case when he use to masturbate)
PRO TIP: If you want to get to the real juicy stuff let him drink a couple of glasses of alcohol. Have him kneel on the floor directly next to you and ask him questions, while you masturbate him. The doors to the secret vault will open up and you will hear truths that he has keep hidden his whole life!
Step Two
Every new Mistress has the same struggle. None of them know, “how to create a scene.” I’m going to simplify this for you and help you set up “scenes” in a Female Led Relationship, but first I need to explain some differences in BDSM.
A “submissive” wants to submit authority to you 24/7. This submission is both inside and outside the bedroom. This is typically found with a submissive husband submitting to his wife in a Female Led Relationship.
A “bottom” submits to a Mistress in a dungeon or bedroom. A bottom is looking to have a kink or fetish fulfilled by a Mistress for a short period of time. Creating a “scene” for a bottom is more challenging because you are “playing a part,” often catering to what the bottom wants (i.e. spanking, pegging, flogging, etc.). This is often referred to as “topping from the bottom.” The bottom gets what he needs, usually has an orgasm and goes about his daily life as normal. There is basically an, “on and off” switch. You typically see this with Professional Dominatrix’s and at BDSM play parties.
The advice I’m going to give you ONLY applies with Dommes with Submissive’s in a 24/7 FEMALE LED RELATIONSHIP. Remember, a Female Led Relationship is a RELATIONSHIP and not a ROLE. He doesn’t go “back to his normal life,” He goes into the laundry room and finishes ironing your blouses.
Lets talk about “Scenes.” Most scenes in a Female Led Relationship are EASY once you set them up! 90% of your “Scenes” will look like this:
Him cooking all the meals and cleaning up afterwards.
Him doing the shopping for the food and keeping the kitchen stocked.
Him cleaning the bathrooms.
Him making the beds (including the pillows).
Him completing the laundry, ironing, folding, and putting it away.
Him dusting and vacuuming.
Him washing the cars.
Him drawing the blinds and shades, and opening them in the morning.
Him filling your glass with water.
Him bringing you your slippers.
Him brushing your hair.
Him taking down the bed (including the pillows).
I could go on and on, but I think you get the point. These are all scenes! My husband’s chore list is more than 50 items long. Some things he has to do daily, some weekly and some monthly, but let’s just say he is busy! We have dozens of “scenes” a day.
These activities became a scene the moment you required him to do it. The psychological effect on a submissive will make him aroused while folding socks. When we discuss orgasm denial in more depth, you will understand why your submissive will continually be aroused for weeks and months at a time. His life becomes, “one never ending scene.”
Step Three:
Orgasm Denial
Women who embrace Female Domination have discovered if they dominate their man in the bedroom, he is usually easy to control outside the bedroom. The dominated male feels a special bond to his female dominator and feels more romantic toward her. The dominated man becomes a passionate man and he usually wants to touch, fondle and caress her more than he ever did before. His submissive nature unleashes sexual energy, and the wise wife will channel that energy into getting her needs met.
Women have come to discover that a denied and sexually frustrated male is a passionate and productive man but a sexually fulfilled male is a lazy man. Many women have embraced the practice of male orgasm denial to limit the amount of orgasms their man has. This keeps him in a heightened submissive state. Men love to be sexually dominated by a woman and men love to be taken to subspace. “Subspace” is the mental stimulation and mental pleasure a man encounters from being dominated by a woman and is often described as euphoric.
You will be absolutely stunned at the amount of energy, efficiency and how obedient men become when they haven’t orgasmed in a month. Typically the response from experienced Mistresses goes something like this, “why did I wait so long to start this?” and “why, would I ever allow him to cum again?” All kidding aside, I believe you will see a remarkable difference in you husband when you start controlling his orgasms and making him dependent on your approval.
If a man had his way, he would be allowed sexual release, multiple times a day. This is not a good idea if a woman wants him to be attentive to her needs. If a man wants to have an orgasm every night, but his wife denies him what he wants, and limits him to say, one orgasm per month, then that is considered orgasm denial. There are women who deny their men longer and limit them to only one orgasm every few months. Then there are women who think one or two orgasms a year is sufficient for a man, in order to keep his plumbing working well, and his desire to serve at a maximum level.
The male orgasm is a biological function that causes a sexual release, which relaxes both the body and the mind. The body wants to relax or even sleep after orgasm and the last thing it wants to do is to be forced to do any physical activity. Keeping a man aroused and denied is the greatest technique a woman can employ for her own sexual fulfillment. The longer a man is denied will cause his energy level to go beyond his normal physical endurance.
This sexual energy under the control of a woman can be channeled into her being pleasured. Once she has been satisfied, she “may” permit her man sexual release or she can keep him denied to ensure he will be more attentive to her needs both that night, and in the weeks to follow.
An interesting aspect to the Femdom practice of male orgasm denial is the sexual impact it has on women. Few things rival the sexual intensity that a woman will experience when she denies her husband sexual orgasms while she enjoys as much pleasure as she desires. It is a psychological power exchange that releases more of a woman’s dominant nature and sexual desires. Women begin to not only enjoy the benefits of male orgasm denial inside of the bedroom but also the benefits outside of the bedroom.
Male orgasm denial is all about control and the woman who controls her man’s orgasms ultimately controls her man. Those who have never experienced this power dynamic do not understand the power and intensity of male orgasm denial.
Step Four
The Basics
I’ve trained dogs since I was 14 years old. I grew up in a small town in the Midwest and my parents were dog breeders/trainers, so I’ve been around dogs my whole life. I still spend around 10 hours a week training service animals as a side hustle. Don’t laugh, but if you can train a dog, you are on your way to being a full-fledged Domme!
Approach setting up your FLR relationship as if you are training a dog, because it’s basically identical! I’m serious, If you have doubts about how to handle a situation, ask yourself, how would you handle it if you were training a puppy. You are now just training your husband. The great part is submissives are just like Labradors…They both WANT to be trained.
Remember when I told you that submissive men are all the same. If you learn to train one submissive, you can train any of them. Same as dog training, if you can train one, the rest are easy. This works to your advantage because you only have to focus on the CORE things that make EVERY submissive man “tick.” The ideas and techniques that I am explaining to you are all CORE techniques in most Female Led Relationships for a reason, because they WORK!
In an Female Led Relationship your husband’s job is to be 100% obedient to you and provide impeccable service. Same as when I am training service animals. Service animals provide a service, and they are required to be obedient, 100% of the time. If they are not, they are corrected. See where I am going with this?
In an Female Led Relationship the fundamental part of the relationship is that the husband has agreed to submit to his wife’s authority and control. The wife’s responsibility is to exert that control and enforce the rules of the relationship. So let me get back to dog training…
Dominant Communication
When I train dogs, I give them a command. It typically goes like this: “Fido…Come.” I expect Fido to come to me. It makes no difference what Fido is doing. He comes because I called. End of story. It’s exerting my dominance, and he is submitting to my authority.
When I’m at home working in my office and I’m thirsty, it typically goes like this: I will call out my husband’s name and say, “Robbie!” He promptly stops what he is doing, wherever he is in the house, and immediately comes to me. Robbie walks up and I tell him, “I would like an iced tea.”
Robert will go and make my iced tea and bring it back to me. When he returns, he will always ask, “is there anything else I can get you?” My response typically is, “no thank you.” And he will go about doing what he was doing before he was summoned. Noticed I never thanked him for the iced tea. Whenever Robert provides any service to me he is required to ask if there is anything else that I would like. He is offering his service to me.
This is often hard for inexperienced Dommes to understand but every “please” and “thank you” you give a submissive is the equivalent to a Dominatrix in a dungeon apologizing for smacking a submissives’ ass too hard. I never say, “Fido, go get your toy please.” When Fido does something good he’s rewarded with a, “good boy.” This goes for my husband! Remember what I told you about “scenes.” You just turned a normal, everyday interaction into a Femdom “scene.” Its important to point out that the interaction was completely appropriate, regardless of whose around. Your submissive just looks like a doting partner who spoils his wife.
Since adolescence we’ve been taught manners. “Say please”, “Say thank you.” 90% of Femdom is MENTAL. A Dominatrix in a dungeon tells her submissive to “kneel” or “go get my whip.” She doesn’t say, “Would you kneel, please?” How does, “oh, thank you George for getting my whip, that was kind of you,” sound? I get it, it’s a hard habit to break. I’m not saying you need to bark orders (even though sometimes it has a place), I’m just saying to think about your delivery. It’s an EASY way for you to enhance your dominance with no effort.
A good way to break the habit is to require your husband to ask, “Is there anything else I may get you?” whenever you assign him a task. This way it prompts you to answer the question and allows him to see if there is something else you may need.
Yesterday, Robert spent his ENTIRE day off cleaning the closet, ironing my clothes, deep cleaning the kitchen and bedrooms, cleaning both cars and then he cooked dinner. After I finished eating the dinner he served, I had him pour me a glass of chardonnay and walked into my bedroom and called my sister, while he cleaned up. I left my dinner plate right where it was on the table. He cleaned it all up. There is no “teamwork!”
When he came into the bedroom that evening, he drew me a bath and knelt near the bathtub quietly while I read a book. When I was finished, he dried me off and turned down the bed. When I got into bed, he knelt beside me and asked if there was anything else that I would like. I told him he was a “good boy” today, but I wasn’t happy with the way my jeans were hung up after he ironed them. I told him he could get into bed, but I want them fixed before I wake up in the morning. He got into bed, I told him I was tired and we’re both going right to sleep.
What I want to point out in this interaction was there was never a “thank you” for doing what is required of him. He can thank me for being a wonderful wife who keeps him in line. He is also not allowed to have ANY expectation for anything, EVER! I was fully aware that he worked hard all-day, doing things that I wanted done. This is what he signed up for and I’m going to keep my end of the arrangement.
DO NOT fall into the, “thank you for doing all that stuff,” syndrome.
Just by being a demanding princess, I was able to create an unbelievable Femdom “scene,” that will permeate in his mind for weeks to come, simply by having him serve me all day. Yes he worked hard, BUT ITS HIS JOB! Don’t allow him to serve you half assed. I wasn’t pleased with the way he hung up my jeans, so I corrected the issue. DO NOT feel obligated to reward his hard work! Sometimes you may, most of the time you wont! This isn’t Burger King and he doesn’t get it his way.
I was also fully aware when I told him that he needed to correct this before I woke up that it would cause him to get up earlier than he normally does. We have several other protocols in place that require him to get up before me, every day. This is his problem to deal with, not mine. Had he taken more time and done it correctly the first time, he would have been able to get more sleep. DO NOT let him slack. I like my jeans hung a specific way, not the way he likes to hang them. His job is to do everything the way I want. This is FEMALE DOMINATION.
Him doing things (i.e. laundry/dishes/shopping etc.) isn’t enough! He does “all the things” the way you want them done! Period.
Years ago, we had an issue with his attention to detail while folding towels. He is a DIEHARD Seattle Seahawks fan and they were in the playoffs that year. He was getting ready to sit down on the sofa and watch the game. I told him to go into the laundry room and iron every towel in the house and fold them correctly and come get me when he was ready for me to inspect. During halftime he came and asked me to inspect his work. He did a great job and asked if he could watch the rest of the game. I asked him, “where are the hand towels?”. The look on his face was priceless and he missed the entire game. Every day since then, my towel closet looks like it belongs in a Macy’s magazine and we haven’t had this issue again. Don’t be afraid to be the “Queen of Mean!” He will respect you more in the morning! You want him to hate the punishment while it is occurring, (I think that’s AWESOME since its punishment!) but it will be the first thing his mind goes to when he is finally allowed to orgasm.
Just like I said I don’t allow him to do anything half assed, I don’t do anything half assed myself. He needs to actually fear your punishments. He submits, he obeys, I dominate.
Your Inner Voice
When you are training a man, your inner voice will tell you when he’s trying to cut corners, when he’s testing you. It will tell you what he needs to work on and what you should concentrate on next. It will tell you how far to push, where, and what will motivate him to try harder. When my husband picks up his cell phone to check his texts, that voice tells me to make him ask for permission. When he tries to hand me something instead of presenting it to me correctly, the voice tells me to make him kneel and do it right. That quiet inner voice is magical, really. If you listen to it, it will give you all that you wish for.
Understanding Authority
Consider all of the people with authority over you – the tax man, your boss, your dean. You can’t argue with them. You can’t wriggle your way out from under their expectations. You’re stuck doing whatever they say. You might even have to thank them when you’re done.
You are that authority figure over your husband. It doesn’t matter what happened in the office today. You’re still the boss. No amount of wheedling will invert your position over your employees. What you say goes. Some women can’t imagine having this much power in their relationship, because they imagine that authority is synonymous with physical size or standing armies. But you are already in charge.
Your partner is a submissive male and wants to yield this to you and all the threat you need is already hanging over his head. You see, your partner’s fondest wish is to submit to you. If he undermines your authority, it means he undermines his own happiness. If he refuses to cooperate with your requests, you can simply stop playing his game. (After all, why would you bother giving orders to someone who won’t obey them?) His future depends upon satisfying you now. If he wants to be happy, he will have to keep you happy. One sharp look from you is all it takes to remind him of that.
Rules
RULES are rules. It’s meaningless to say “No swimming” one day and “Well, it’s hot today, so I guess it’s okay” the next. If you set a boundary for your husband, be ready to enforce it consistently. If he learns that he can just wait until you are too tired to care whether he washes the dishes or not, then you can expect to see dirty dishes in the sink every morning. He’s counting on you to enforce your authority. Without it, your orders are empty. So, be stern. Be strict. Be unyielding.
If you count down from three, be ready to do something truly terrifying at “one.” Never back off without a good reason. Stand firm. That said, there will be situations when it would be unreasonable to enforce your own rules. Life can get in the way of your best intentions. If your mother-in-law is visiting, your husband may not be able to serve you tea naked. That’s fine. The important thing is that you are the one who decides what is reasonable; it’s not up to your partner’s mood.
I find it useful to have a mental list of priorities that override my demands as a female dominant. If God, work, or family need my husbands attention, he is excused from whatever I’ve asked him to do.
Delivery and Directness
One thing that is very important for the dominant wife to remember is that it is up to you to “tell him what you want”. Don’t be shy about it, be direct and very specific, he will be able to accomplish more and not have to ask for clarification if you are specific in your instructions.
If you want something, say so. That’s all it takes. No need to ask, justify, defend, or apologize for it. Just tell your magic genie what you want – what you really want. Your wish is his command.
Do these examples sound blunt? Good! Remember, men are straightforward. They appreciate facts.
Go get the lotion, I need you to rub my feet.
Run my bath for me and while I’m in there, get started on the laundry.
Get up, Sweetheart, and make me some tea and an English muffin with butter.
I want a full body massage for exactly one hour; keep an eye on the clock. When you are done, I want you to go down on me until I tell you to stop. Afterwards, we’ll both go right to sleep.
I’m going out with the girls tonight. While I’m gone you will work on the laundry and meal prep for the week.
My car needs to be vacuumed when I get home. (Notice I wasn’t asking him)
If you’re feeling thirsty, don’t just tell your partner you’re feeling thirsty. Tell him to bring you an iced tea. In a wine glass. With a slice of lemon. Whatever you want is yours – just as soon as you explain it.
All of these examples are Femdom scenes that you created simply by your delivery.
Submissive men do not need to be threatened with challenges like “now” and “or else” to get things done. As far as they’re concerned, those phrases are already implied.
If you are interested in learning more on the language of leadership, check out business management books. They can introduce you to motivational techniques and tactful phrasing that will inspire your partner to excel at any task you assign him.
But Don’t I Need To Be Helpful?
I’m sure you were taught to always be kind and offer your assistance. Instead of, “oh, let me help you with that,” try to shift your mindset, and work on your “Domme Skills,” and make him do it all HIMSELF.
A couple of days ago My husband and I went to Sam’s Club. We filled up the cart! When we walked outside it was 35 degrees and drizzling. It was cold! I told him to start the car and turn on the heat. He opened the door, and I sat down in the car and waited. He unloaded everything by himself. When we got home, I immediately walked inside, sat in front of the fireplace and called my girlfriend. I never offered him any assistance. He unloaded it all and put everything away himself. While he was in the middle of it I called his name and he came over to me and I told him I wanted an iced tea.
Don’t miss out on the “Easy Domme Points!” How helpful do you think Princess Diana was around the Palace? Princesses don’t bring in groceries! (OK…..at my age I probably should have used Queen, but I think Princess sounds so much younger and sexier!)
If you are going to be a Domme, BE A DOMME!
It’s Semester Exam Time.
Before you can complete “FLR 101,” I have some homework for you. Nash Kat is a Femdom who lives in Nashville and she has a VERY GOOD podcast. I want you to listen to a specific episode designed for new Dommes. The episode is only 21 minutes long, but she delivers some very sound advice that you should hear. Before you go any further, listen to the episode. Click on the red link.
(You may have to open Apple Podcasts and Search “Nash Kat Secret Power Femdom” to get it to play)
Congratulations, after you listen to the podcast, you have completed FLR 101. Now lets go on to the next lesson, FLR 201, Step Up Your Game.
FLR 201 Step Up Your Game- A Guide For Women