The next mental shift is learning to put yourself first. This can feel uncomfortable, especially if you’re naturally considerate and unaccustomed to being a little “self centered.” But here’s the kicker — all men who are drawn to this lifestyle will actually want you to embrace your demanding and egocentric traits. After all he’s agreed that your needs take priority, so why shouldn’t you embrace that too? It’s all part of what makes the dynamic work.
Take a moment to reflect: what do you really want in life? What makes you happy? What needs improvement? What burdensome tasks can you offload or delegate to him? What changes can you make to create a life that brings you more joy?
While having authority in your marriage is a significant step, what you should truly aim for is to embrace your role as the Queen of your household. A Queen is treated with the utmost respect. She has the freedom to act as she pleases and leads a life that is indulgent and fulfilling. What could be better than that? And here’s the best part — you can have it all! Now is the time to discover your inner Queen! And like any true monarch, to reign effectively, you’ll need resources at your disposal.