Yes, you read the title correctly.
What’s the best part of living in a fully established Wife-Led Marriage? While I can’t speak for every woman, I believe most would agree that it’s like enjoying the best aspects of being single while still reaping all the benefits of marriage. In my own experience, I get to enjoy a relationship free of petty arguments, with a partner who listens intently and is always a pleasure to be around. He unconditionally supports my vision for our family. He is my rock, making me feel fully secure in the world. He fulfills all my emotional and family needs and is a wonderful father to our children. I take comfort in knowing that I’m free to expect a lot from him, and I find joy in seeing him go above and beyond for me each and every day.
But here’s the twist — I also get to enjoy the complete autonomy that a single woman would have too. I live my life entirely on my terms: I spend our money however I choose, I act however I please, and I never have to worry about being questioned.
Now, this next part might seem a bit unconventional, but it’s important to mention. As this lifestyle shifts perspectives — his deepened sense of happiness, your growing sense of entitlement, and because this lifestyle encourages women to continually reassess their needs —our Female Led Relationship naturally evolved into other, lets say… unexpected areas too.
It’s not uncommon to see a wife-led marriage where the female has the freedom to have adult fun, outside their marriage, while her husband remains avidly monogamous and loyal. Yes, I’m talking about the concept of a one-sided, open marriage and its rather common in Female Led Relationships.
Over the last 20 years I’ve has sex with 7 other men. Five were one-night stands, one lasted a couple of months and the other is still, “my friend.” This is the Mount Everest of power and control relationships. My husband knows about every one of them.
I’ve had my husband wait in the hotel lobby at the Hilton while I had sex, in our hotel bed. He’s also picked me up from “my friends” house on several occasions after I was fucked senseless. He’s helped me pick out a sexy pair of panties to wear for another man. He’s gone down on me, numerous times, after other men have had sex with his wife (something he’s not allowed to do). I made him sit in a chair at a swinger’s club, locked in a chastity device, and watch me have sex.
Why would I do it?
1. He wants Female Domination, and I enjoy good sex! I was a little unsure the first time I did it and afterwards, I was hooked! My husband quickly realized he opened the genie in the bottle.
2. Submissive men are hardwired this way.
3. It’s a win-win situation for everyone. It’s fun and I get to enjoy the great carefree parts of being single with the stability of an outstanding, loving marriage.
4.Most of all, my husband is beyond aroused afterwards. There is nothing to describe the closeness I feel when I crawl into bed with my husband, un-showered after having sex with another man, having my husband go down on me and give me another orgasm, then hold me tightly, kissing my neck while I drift off to sleep. And the best part is, he still goes to bed without an orgasm!
I have mentioned the psychological need for submissive men to feel humiliation and denial. This hits all the pleasure receptors in their brains.
Just in case you are curious, this doesn’t go both ways! I will beat him for even looking at another woman. Literally, beat him. With my favorite cane, because it hurts like a son of a bitch. Remember, Female Led Relationships thrive on the total unfairness of the relationship.
Everyone’s journey is going to be different after all, and I strongly believe that all couples should be free to explore what works for them and not be constrained by conventional notions of how a relationship is “supposed to be.” EXPLORE YOUR SEXUALLITY and worry about what makes the two of you happy. Life is too short to have boring sex!
After all, it’s not just about adding a little excitement to your life, it’s about personal growth, liberation, and embracing the idea that you can live life entirely without restriction, all while maintaining a safe, loving, and committed marriage. For women like myself, the idea of being allowed this kind of freedom, even if they choose not to enact on it, is the ultimate expression of female empowerment.