How to make it Authentic:
Femdom becomes authentic the moment you realize how much power you have! A Female Led Relationship is based on power and control. When you tell your husband something he must obey it! What happens when you tell him to do something that he truly doesn’t want to do? For the sake of argument, let’s use a Prince Albert piercing as an extreme example. If I tell him he is getting the piercing and he doesn’t want one, I’m sure you are thinking he is faced with two choices. Comply with my wishes and get it, or not. This would be incorrect.
His actual choices would be to comply with my wishes or “we will no longer do Femdom!” This is when Femdom becomes authentic. My husband hates the cane, and he hates having to bend over and take it, but he has no option but to comply, because he knows he needs Femdom. All he ever wanted in life was to live in Femdomville and now that he lives there, he doesn’t want to move away. So when faced with the choices of, “do what I tell you to do” or “there is no Femdom” he will listen to what I tell him 100% of the time. He has to bend to my will.