BDSM organizations listed by state.
The list includes all BDSM groups and not just Femdom. Click on the link for your state and see what’s nearby. :
Alabama
-CASE – https://fetlife.com/users/15455021
H-A-N-D-S – https://fetlife.com/users/7904059
HardPinkSisters – https://fetlife.com/users/4862164
The_RedChair – https://fetlife.com/users/1008776
Alaska
AlaskaClubKink – https://fetlife.com/users/17260158
Arizona
APEX_Calendar – https://fetlife.com/users/6052978
BossBitchFed – https://fetlife.com/users/12418200
ClubFEMAZ – https://fetlife.com/users/11962050
DOIAZ – https://fetlife.com/users/2982148
DragonsGate – https://fetlife.com/users/118930
EVEE_Arizona – https://fetlife.com/users/11193647
Lets_TALK_Tucson – https://fetlife.com/Lets_TALK_Tucson
SWOP_Phoenix – https://fetlife.com/users/16930748
TNG_AZ – https://fetlife.com/users/1525578
California
910WeHo – https://fetlife.com/users/10937362
94thSocialSD – https://fetlife.com/users/18436322
Afterdark-Events – https://fetlife.com/users/6970225
SDBadIntentions – https://fetlife.com/users/10244565
BLAQL0TUS – https://fetlife.com/users/13336378
Boundless_Events – https://fetlife.com/users/4885253
CLUBFEMJAX – https://fetlife.com/users/18730794
ClubFUK – https://fetlife.com/users/6016129
ClubWOE – https://fetlife.com/users/13049979
ClubX_SD – https://fetlife.com/users/2516901
DarkGardenCorsetry – https://fetlife.com/users/986186
DenOfRoses – https://fetlife.com/users/13678110
Deviants-NYC – https://fetlife.com/users/154313
DomCon – https://fetlife.com/users/2426170
DommeCollective – https://fetlife.com/users/6451270
DommeNationNYC – https://fetlife.com/users/7891584
DtDoDi – https://fetlife.com/users/20385929
DungeonEast – https://fetlife.com/users/4312507
F-L-A-G – https://fetlife.com/users/6974539
Foundations – https://fetlife.com/users/1387208
Golden_Arrows – https://fetlife.com/users/12668857
HausofObsidian – https://fetlife.com/users/15145540
HausofWOE – https://fetlife.com/users/17115937
HeyPlura – https://fetlife.com/users/16419864
Hidden-Dungeon – https://fetlife.com/users/1545807
HouseofBlack – https://fetlife.com/users/4275791
HouseofKush – https://fetlife.com/users/12722719
HouseOfSlay – https://fetlife.com/users/18873446
Infernols – https://fetlife.com/users/13625745
KinkCollectiveOC – https://fetlife.com/users/17517126
KinkInIE – https://fetlife.com/users/16036790
KinkyAFPodcast – https://fetlife.com/users/8624530
LADs – https://fetlife.com/users/70000
legacybdsm – https://fetlife.com/users/14692396
Monterey_Events – https://fetlife.com/users/17205598
NirvanaStudios – https://fetlife.com/users/19034814
Nocturnal_Events – https://fetlife.com/users/14893916
nudespa – https://fetlife.com/users/4939653
Official_Kink – https://fetlife.com/users/3827664
OrderOfIndomitus – https://fetlife.com/users/5444866
PleasureChest-LA – https://fetlife.com/users/584646
PowerExchange – https://fetlife.com/users/106874
PowerPlayGround – https://fetlife.com/users/20193808
Praxium – https://fetlife.com/Praxium
SANCTUARY_LAX – https://fetlife.com/users/1186168
SanDiegoSpanking – https://fetlife.com/users/20376828
SDBadIntentions – https://fetlife.com/users/10244565
SDFemDomAlliance – https://fetlife.com/users/15284842
Serenity_Studios – https://fetlife.com/users/15698252
SoCalFemDomMunch – https://fetlife.com/users/13427998
SocietyofJanus – https://fetlife.com/users/1603091
The_Dam_Ranch – https://fetlife.com/users/6857551
TheRackRoomAdmin – https://fetlife.com/users/8451338
The_Stockroom – https://fetlife.com/users/3890381
TheAlphaAcademy – https://fetlife.com/users/10586063
TheMidnightManor – https://fetlife.com/users/7588912
Threshold_LA – https://fetlife.com/users/2082091
VoxBody_Studio – https://fetlife.com/users/9181985
WickedGrounds – https://fetlife.com/users/8474971
Colorado
TheAnnex – https://fetlife.com/users/16141051
DenScarletLetter – https://fetlife.com/users/10468875
DenverSanctuary – https://fetlife.com/users/897728
FemdomStorm – https://fetlife.com/users/14082085
IntrinsicKinkinc – https://fetlife.com/users/20478450
PragmaticKink – https://fetlife.com/users/2254094
RACKRoomDenver – https://fetlife.com/users/5196549
Sexploratorium – https://fetlife.com/users/19099887
VoodooGallery – https://fetlife.com/users/2176094
CONNECTICUT
Art_Cinema – https://fetlife.com/users/10185023
DivIntervention – https://fetlife.com/users/19252110
Florida
CFnmSouthFlorida – https://fetlife.com/users/18915636
CKJEvents – https://fetlife.com/users/9910645
ClubFem_CNE_FL – https://fetlife.com/users/19215373
ClubFEM-SE-FL – https://fetlife.com/users/10134766
CLUBFEMJAX – https://fetlife.com/users/18730794
DiosasDominance – https://fetlife.com/users/14799419
DominantDialogue – https://fetlife.com/users/19311169
FemDomAllianceCF – https://fetlife.com/users/9821760
FemDomCollective – https://fetlife.com/users/7589868
FemDommeCF – https://fetlife.com/users/9532296
FemDomOasis – https://fetlife.com/users/21336485
FemmeFataleSoc – https://fetlife.com/users/19498980
Hels_Furies – https://fetlife.com/users/18781053
HouseBlueFlames – https://fetlife.com/users/6384440
KraveLifetsyle – https://fetlife.com/users/20883049
Leading_Ladies – https://fetlife.com/users/10781830
MistrixEvents – https://fetlife.com/MistrixEvents
PALS_Promotions – https://fetlife.com/users/15736859
Phoenix_Club – https://fetlife.com/users/1846095
SadisticCoach – https://fetlife.com/users/8662987
Sobe-Submission – https://fetlife.com/users/500046
SRQDarkTemple – https://fetlife.com/users/13137574
The_Space – https://fetlife.com/users/11698737
The-Vulgarians – https://fetlife.com/users/16902402
TheLab – https://fetlife.com/users/9515377
TheMistressShow – https://fetlife.com/TheMistressShow
TheToyChestSF – https://fetlife.com/TheToyChestSF
VersaiKingdom – https://fetlife.com/VersaiKingdom
WoodshedOrlando – https://fetlife.com/users/4532738
WhypDancer – https://fetlife.com/users/13803
Georgia
-FLAIR- – https://fetlife.com/users/9275053
AtlantaDungeon – https://fetlife.com/users/1009174
ATLSubbySchool – https://fetlife.com/users/17421980
BFD_Atlanta – https://fetlife.com/users/2266314
DOMMETRIPS – https://fetlife.com/users/2654120
KinkEdAtlanta – https://fetlife.com/users/18663248
Magnolia_Ad_Team – https://fetlife.com/users/17771878
Mischief_Manor – https://fetlife.com/users/16925871
Rumors- – https://fetlife.com/users/19241838
SELeatherFest – https://fetlife.com/users/2468117
Themandigosclub – https://fetlife.com/users/16793159
Hawaii
HouseNAWA – https://fetlife.com/users/14981228
Idaho
Alt_Collective – https://fetlife.com/users/5928911
BALL_Boise – https://fetlife.com/users/11856020
Boise_FemDom – https://fetlife.com/users/19472791
Illinois
BeguiledCon – https://fetlife.com/BeguiledCon
ChainReactionLab – https://fetlife.com/users/9814323
ElginMunchers – https://fetlife.com/users/14792800
GalleriaDomain2 – https://fetlife.com/users/10658691
Jol-PetsHandlers – https://fetlife.com/users/17828724
KaneCntyKinkster – https://fetlife.com/users/17563292
MidwestFemDomme – https://fetlife.com/users/9932213
QueerFemdomMunch – https://fetlife.com/users/18195130
TheChicagoRose – https://fetlife.com/users/7503077
Indiana
FEMSForever – https://fetlife.com/users/16306105
GreatLakesPEC – https://fetlife.com/users/19558574
House_of_Aurora – https://fetlife.com/users/3974826
subSpace_Indy – https://fetlife.com/users/7806619
Kansas
DMLeathers – https://fetlife.com/users/8665192
HausOfSugar – https://fetlife.com/users/17777932
IXKansasCity – https://fetlife.com/users/3974307
Wicked_Weekend – https://fetlife.com/users/20226363
Louisiana
BaDomme_Rouge – https://fetlife.com/users/7787199
BOSSlidell – https://fetlife.com/users/400868
Education_Edge – https://fetlife.com/Education_Edge
FeticheNOLA – https://fetlife.com/FeticheNOLA
Northshore-CFnm – https://fetlife.com/users/8460625
PandorasGarden_6 – https://fetlife.com/users/15500342
RSVP_BatonRouge – https://fetlife.com/RSVP_BatonRouge
The_Bastille – https://fetlife.com/users/1661644
Maryland
ALL-IN-PLAYHOUSE – https://fetlife.com/users/9797130
HausofObsidian – https://fetlife.com/users/15145540
Heroine-Girls – https://fetlife.com/users/12551135
RedVelvetRetreat – https://fetlife.com/users/6155489
TempestHill – https://fetlife.com/users/17430063
TheDungeonStore – https://fetlife.com/users/4775613
TwistingCulture – https://fetlife.com/users/9638758
Uncovered-Convos – https://fetlife.com/users/19936171
Massachusetts
Boink_LLC – https://fetlife.com/Boink_LLC
Boston_CJLL – https://fetlife.com/users/16183213
FEMOCRACY-NE – https://fetlife.com/users/19947924
MICHIGAN
ArcadiaCollectiv – https://fetlife.com/users/9771722
Auroras_Events – https://fetlife.com/users/3168791
BoardOfEducation – https://fetlife.com/users/14777146
BOE_TNG – https://fetlife.com/users/14592541
DivineFemmes – https://fetlife.com/users/18148723
GreatLakesOrg- https://fetlife.com/users/9676734
Happenings – https://fetlife.com/users/15242129
Lansing_BIPOC – https://fetlife.com/users/19416183
LansingTNG – https://fetlife.com/users/17304825
MAsT_Ann_Arbor – https://fetlife.com/users/11341672
nd-bdsm-lansing – https://fetlife.com/users/19636578
Oblige – https://fetlife.com/users/12145228
SmuttingForSci – https://fetlife.com/users/17758922
THE_BLVCKFIRE – https://fetlife.com/users/18127772
TheGallery – https://fetlife.com/users/16019489
TheRACKgr – https://fetlife.com/users/18999114
ThaVatican – https://fetlife.com/users/11715976
TransPeepsLan_Mi – https://fetlife.com/users/19368067
Minnesota
BONDESQUE – https://fetlife.com/users/4950425
MNDarkside – https://fetlife.com/users/11692924
MNProtocol – https://fetlife.com/users/15464249
MUSELeadership – https://fetlife.com/users/5826134
TheParlour – https://fetlife.com/users/18241199
Missouri
GatewayALC – https://fetlife.com/users/5904973
PearlRoomPrdctns – https://fetlife.com/users/18591128
STL_FemSub – https://fetlife.com/users/10526313
Nebraska
OmahaCollective – https://fetlife.com/OmahaCollective
OurBelladonna – https://fetlife.com/users/14765283
Nevada
ClubFem Las Vegas https://clubfemvegas.com/club-fem-las-vegas
Footnight –https://fetlife.com/users/120237
SinCityFemdoms – https://fetlife.com/users/16544755
The_Cathedral – https://fetlife.com/The_Cathedral
TheSirenDen – https://fetlife.com/users/19743290
VegasToolbox – https://fetlife.com/users/8782224
New Hampshire
_DANSE_MACABRE_ – https://fetlife.com/users/10660476
Dandysplayroom – https://fetlife.com/users/20531895
New Jersey
BadKittyCommitte – https://fetlife.com/users/11391424
ClubFEMNJ – https://fetlife.com/users/17309236
DommeNationNJ – https://fetlife.com/DommeNationNJ
FemDommeNJ – https://fetlife.com/users/16135665
House_Exeter – https://fetlife.com/users/14836668
Klassiekingdom – https://fetlife.com/users/15896154
LeadersSJPE_MEPk – https://fetlife.com/users/2206442
Mischief_Matters – https://fetlife.com/users/15406493
TriStateDelights – https://fetlife.com/users/18880197
YourKinkyFriends – https://fetlife.com/users/8379504
New Mexico
Purgatory – https://fetlife.com/users/17543145
New York
Ascend_HV – https://fetlife.com/users/18228343
BAREFOOT_GODDESS – https://fetlife.com/users/2479430
BlackDiamondSpce – https://fetlife.com/users/1801746
BLISS_SESSIONS – https://fetlife.com/users/15432477
Church- https://fetlife.com/Church-
ClubFEM-NYC – https://fetlife.com/users/8117779
ConCations – https://fetlife.com/users/4377545
CORP_PUNISH_FEMS – https://fetlife.com/users/2333641
Cross_Island_Alt – https://fetlife.com/users/12596587
DeviantCuckolds – https://fetlife.com/users/16303336
Deviant-Swingers – https://fetlife.com/users/10320274
DommeNationNYC – https://fetlife.com/users/7891584
DoomWrestlingNYC – https://fetlife.com/users/1426294
Events_RKS – https://fetlife.com/users/42385
FemdomDominion – https://fetlife.com/users/13556092
Get-Licked – https://fetlife.com/users/21033060
GothamRigging – https://fetlife.com/users/13187302
harmonytheatrex – https://fetlife.com/users/15551180
KinkAdventuresCo – https://fetlife.com/users/18525934
Kink-Collective – https://fetlife.com/users/4152854
Kinky_Blerds – https://fetlife.com/Kinky_Blerds
LeatherCC-NE – https://fetlife.com/users/17941077
LessDeadStudio – https://fetlife.com/users/13636305
LILNR – https://fetlife.com/users/271103
LovelyLadiesOfLI – https://fetlife.com/users/9868340
MadamElectra – https://fetlife.com/users/12379302
MAsT_Huntington – https://fetlife.com/users/19718750
MEDUSASPLAYHOUSE – https://fetlife.com/users/18523057
MIKEFETISHFILMS – https://fetlife.com/users/1889724
mzSESSION – https://fetlife.com/users/346910
NortheastPE – https://fetlife.com/users/4073188
NYC_CGL_Munch – https://fetlife.com/users/15610366
NYCCollective – https://fetlife.com/users/6470613
PartyOnOrMoveOnE – https://fetlife.com/users/19436937
RocDommes – https://fetlife.com/users/9270572
S-O-C – https://fetlife.com/users/13164235
SheMagickEvents – https://fetlife.com/users/12712095
SmittensLair – https://fetlife.com/users/7310096
SurrenderParties – https://fetlife.com/users/17994144
SWSurvivalGuide – https://fetlife.com/users/17994931
TES-NYC – https://fetlife.com/users/2132893
TheColosseumNY – https://fetlife.com/users/14217002
TheTaillorGroup – NYC – https://fetlife.com/users/8379778
Whispers_Of_Kink – https://fetlife.com/users/12231395
North Carolina
_The_Sanctuary_ – https://fetlife.com/users/14655807
D_o_C – https://fetlife.com/users/8060110
lairderriere – https://fetlife.com/users/3936902
lilfox_toybox – https://fetlife.com/users/10284206
SoaringEagleNC – https://fetlife.com/users/6467812
The_Lair_Society – https://fetlife.com/users/17452250
TheLoftNC – https://fetlife.com/users/1836335
Ohio
-OAL- – https://fetlife.com/users/17599808
5710Cleveland – https://fetlife.com/users/19304205
AISKinkLabs – https://fetlife.com/users/17205978
All_Access_Ohio – https://fetlife.com/users/19062666
Bad_Wolf_photos – https://fetlife.com/users/3214453
Blush_Industries – https://fetlife.com/users/11940104
bonds-of-steel – https://fetlife.com/users/58535
BurningRiver-SSC – https://fetlife.com/users/8165146
cell_fiVe – https://fetlife.com/users/10139686
Cincy_Sanctum – https://fetlife.com/users/16229130
CLE-Collective – https://fetlife.com/users/13200033
ClevelandFemdoms – https://fetlife.com/users/19612927
ClevelandPetPlay – https://fetlife.com/users/20956739
Cincy_Sanctum – https://fetlife.com/users/16229130
eroticphotog – https://fetlife.com/users/16998558
Fems United – Columbus Kink – https://fetlife.com/Fems_United
KinkyPilates – https://fetlife.com/users/14916260
LakesideDungeon – https://fetlife.com/users/11940751
Manor_Gear – https://fetlife.com/users/2726164
medinabdsm – https://fetlife.com/users/8956680
OhioBoudoir – https://fetlife.com/users/4827235
OhioSMART – https://fetlife.com/users/3320279
OhioSMART_Ties – https://fetlife.com/users/3153492
QUICK-CLE – https://fetlife.com/users/16402399
RedRoomXXXStudio – https://fetlife.com/users/16854026
RopeOlogy_21 – https://fetlife.com/users/13562415
ShadesOasis – https://fetlife.com/users/14870408
SINagogueBDSM – https://fetlife.com/users/7829293
Spell-bound – https://fetlife.com/users/18482030
The_Fyre_Nation – https://fetlife.com/users/8157248
TheAcademy-AFA – https://fetlife.com/users/5657280
TheAcademy-TNG – https://fetlife.com/users/13959112
ThePleasureGap – https://fetlife.com/users/15853639
TPEC – https://fetlife.com/users/3262151
WickedEden – https://fetlife.com/users/9854989
XOLeather – https://fetlife.com/users/19637242
Zithyer_Photog – https://fetlife.com/users/4043192
Oklahoma
13thFloor – https://fetlife.com/13thFloor
DungeonsDownUnda – https://fetlife.com/users/2532649
Oklahoma Power Exchange – https://fetlife.com/OPE_OKC
ThatPlace – https://fetlife.com/users/8092963
WWW-OKC – https://fetlife.com/users/14906010
Oregon
FitToBeOwned – https://fetlife.com/users/11349822
kinkfest_team – https://fetlife.com/users/233340
SheBopTheShop – https://fetlife.com/users/13620607
SubRosaPDX – https://fetlife.com/users/9390746
the-kinky-geek – https://fetlife.com/users/559943
The-PLA – https://fetlife.com/users/4827340
Pennsylvania
Femocracy – https://fetlife.com/users/8757690
KinksterMerch – https://fetlife.com/users/16832955
KinkThinkFactory – https://fetlife.com/users/13252259
LaudanumAcademy – https://fetlife.com/users/5325321
LWPvenue – https://fetlife.com/users/6268464
Ms301_DeeperSide – https://fetlife.com/users/18630829
PittsburghBridge – https://fetlife.com/users/13089475
SirenPack – https://fetlife.com/users/17816181
TheKinkLair – https://fetlife.com/users/14869436
TheOwlsNest – https://fetlife.com/TheOwlsNest
Rhode Island
GCClub – https://fetlife.com/users/16086507
South Carolina
Friends_Of_NWD – https://fetlife.com/users/11077755
Tennessee
4Play_423 – https://fetlife.com/users/17195644
HouseofKane – https://fetlife.com/users/19235384
IMPACTofMEMPHIS – https://fetlife.com/users/8261360
N-A-E-X – https://fetlife.com/users/19014361
Texas
AsYouWishDFW – https://fetlife.com/users/13544834
ATX_EmptySpace – https://fetlife.com/users/14596119
BDSMusic – https://fetlife.com/users/18940410
ClubFEMDFW – https://fetlife.com/ClubFEMDFW
CTX_Darkside – https://fetlife.com/users/7594257
DevilsPlaygrnd – https://fetlife.com/users/19124142
DFWDungeon – https://fetlife.com/users/5162689
Femalesincharge – https://fetlife.com/users/17208738
Femme_Forward – https://fetlife.com/users/18273735
FemmedomCabal – https://fetlife.com/users/17189470
FemSocialHTX – https://fetlife.com/FemSocialHTX
FemTastic23 – https://fetlife.com/users/18517142
FWLLS – https://fetlife.com/users/15325550
H-E-R – https://fetlife.com/users/12636934
HEWSLounge – https://fetlife.com/users/13649860
HouseAscension – https://fetlife.com/HouseAscension
HoustonCFNMParty – https://fetlife.com/users/11443844
HoustonSissySIG – https://fetlife.com/users/8283640
KFMVendorEvents – https://fetlife.com/users/11004906
LilithClasses – https://fetlife.com/LilithClasses
LovelyLadies_DFW – https://fetlife.com/users/19210301
MatureMetal – https://fetlife.com/users/187566
NLADallas – https://fetlife.com/users/2182346
SADEclasses – https://fetlife.com/users/9145246
ServiceDevotees – https://fetlife.com/users/18881263
SETXFemDomSoc – https://fetlife.com/users/18921200
SOVTX – https://fetlife.com/users/16114098
TexasFootParties – https://fetlife.com/users/3188476
Wicked_Society – https://fetlife.com/users/13602794
Utah
Cornerstone – https://fetlife.com/users/13282282
HouseofGear – https://fetlife.com/users/19143187
KGS – https://fetlife.com/users/16085146
RadioactiveMarch – https://fetlife.com/users/9095221
Virginia
BastilleDungeon – https://fetlife.com/users/9703974
BeTheDIFMunch – https://fetlife.com/users/14375581
dcsubclub – https://fetlife.com/users/1020908
MAsT_VaBeach – https://fetlife.com/users/14448957
MTTA-MsC – https://fetlife.com/users/1009641
TribeNation – https://fetlife.com/users/14720759
VaDommesGroup – https://fetlife.com/users/5028937
Washington
ConsentAcademy – https://fetlife.com/users/7665454
CrowsNestEscape – https://fetlife.com/users/18457616
CSPC – https://fetlife.com/users/3158751
Diadem-Events – https://fetlife.com/users/7745370
DominaPlanet – https://fetlife.com/users/14262340
jesterpresents – https://fetlife.com/users/17069848
PBS_Admin – https://fetlife.com/users/12294059
Pleasure_Bound – https://fetlife.com/users/802510
StrawberryFieldz – https://fetlife.com/users/3751606
YesMiLadySeattle – https://fetlife.com/users/17176271
Washington DC
Active_KinkyDC – https://fetlife.com/users/1312180
BR_BlackRose – https://fetlife.com/users/2944044
ConsentAcademy – https://fetlife.com/users/7665454
DC_AntiSocial – https://fetlife.com/users/4326093
DCFreakyFoodies – https://fetlife.com/users/2432597
DMV_Hide_Away – https://fetlife.com/users/18742249
dcsubclub – https://fetlife.com/users/1020908
EliteFemSociety – https://fetlife.com/users/1635542
Pan-Eros_events – https://fetlife.com/users/1028929
TamaraPincusLICSW – https://fetlife.com/users/1027079
VDX_Photos – https://fetlife.com/users/2657278
WomenRuleParties – https://fetlife.com/users/18090309
WEST VIRGINIA
TALO – https://fetlife.com/users/16597769
Wisconsin
eassel – https://fetlife.com/users/11246301
Milwaukee ClubFEM – https://fetlife.com/users/15875507
toolshedtoys – https://fetlife.com/users/2248369
Femdom Podcasts
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https://www.domme-chronicles.com/blogs-i-read
https://bitchyjones.wordpress.com
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Educational Books on Femdom:
A Guide To Caring Domination by Caroline Peel, Femi Johnson
A Guide To The Correction of Young Gentlemen by Alice Kerr-sutherland
Aesthetic Sexuality – Romana Byrne
The Art of Sensual Female Dominance, A Guide for Women by Claudia Varrin
Around Her Finger – Addison
At Her Feet – TammyJo Eckhart
Coming to Power by Pat/Patrick Califia
Concertina: The Life And Loves Of A Dominatrix by Susan Winemaker Confessions of a Secret Dominatrix by Mistress Marilyn
Control Your Submissive Boy, 150 Ways for the New Domme to Master Her Man by Raven Michaels Lockhart
Different Loving: The world of Sexual Dominance and Submission by Gloria G Brame, William D Brame, Jon Jacobs
The Dominatrix Archetypes®: Become a Multidimensional Dominatrix in the Art of BDSM FemDom by Mistress Damiana Chi Ph.D.
Dominatrix, Gender Eroticism and Control in the Dungeon by Danielle J Lindemann
Dominant Female Submissive Male by Sophia James
The Erotic Mind by Jack Morin
Erotic Slavehood by Christina Abernathy
Erotic Surrender by Claudia Varrin
Female Dominance Rituals And Practices by Claudia Varrin
The Female Dominant, Games She Plays by Claudia Varrin
Female Domination 101 by Constance Pennungton Smythe
FEMDOM: ‘How To’ Femdom Guides Book series by Sharyn Ferns @Ferns
How To Write An Awesome Online Profile: For Submissive Men
How To Find A Dominant Woman: For Submissive Men
How To Make Your First BDSM Scene Amazing: For Dominant Women
How To Handle Disobedience: For Dominant Women
Femdom for Nice Girls – Lucy Fairbourne
FemDom Relationship: A Guide To Caring Domination by Caroline Peel, Femi Johnson FemDom Training of Submissive Males – Vanessa Chaland
Feminist Submissive by Malbon
Fetish girl, A memoir of sex domination and motherhood by Bella LaVey
Finding Love Through Female Domination by Renee Lane
Finding Your Domme, Practical step by step advice for the submissive man seeking a dominant woman by Sydney and Logan Hart
Girls Guide to Femdom, Tips Tricks Rituals and Punishments for Every Week of the Year by Lucy Fairbourne
The Good Girls Guide to Domination
Guide To The Correction of Young Gentlemen by an anonymous Lady in 1924
The Heart of Dominance by Anton Fulmen (@MrFulmen }
The Heart of the Dominatrix: Portraits and Interviews of Exceptional Mistresses by Inanna Justice
The Hesitant Mistress by Dvanna Hightower
His Deep Submission by Kim Acton
The History & Arts of the Dominatrix – @AnneONomis
Hite Report, A National Study of Female Sexuality by Shere Hite
How Can I Make This WORSE For You? – Lessons in controlled, erotic, and maddening escalation from a lifestyle dominant by Ms. Rika (@Ms_Rika )
How To Love A Powerful Woman by TeErika Patterson
How to Be a Dominant Diva by Georgia Payne and Julie Taylor
Imaginative Sex by John Norman
Learning Curves by Beth Younger
Masochism by A Jungian View by Lyn Cowan
Mental Branding by Morte
Mirror of Relationship by J Krishnamurti
Miss Abernathys Concise Slave Training Manual by Christina Abernathy
Mistress Manual,The Good Girls Guide to Female Dominance by Lorelei
Mistress Ruby Ties It Together by Robin Shamburg
Modern Sexuality by Michael Aaron
More Joy: The Joy of Denial … Continued by @Ms_Rika
Obedience Treatment Contested by James Missaglia
Obedient Treatment Continues by James Missaglia
Overcome Femdom and Findom by Coach Nick
Owning And Training A Male Slave by Ingrid Bellemare
Power of the Pussy by Kara King
Psychodynamic Approach to Female Domination in BDSM Relationships by Nathalie Lugand
Protocols Handbook For The Female Slave by Robert Rubel
Radical Ecstasy: S/M to Transcendence by Dossie Easton and Janet Hardy
Real Service by Raven Kaldera and Joshua Tenpenny
Real Women Don’t Do Housework by Fumika Misato
Rika’s Lair: Anthology – Essays on Dominance and Submission from Rika’s Lair Throughout the Years by Ms. Rika (@Ms_Rika )
Rose- My Life in Service to Lady Astor by Rosina Harrison
Sadomasochism: Powerful Pleasures by Peggy J. Kleinplatz and Charles Moser, MD
Secrets of Female Sexuality by David Shade
Serving Me by Ingrid Bellemare
Sex Power and Pleasure by Mariana Valverde
Sexual Power for Women by Georgeann Cross
Sex Tips from a Dominatrix by Patricia Payne
Sexual Key by JD Fuentes
Sexually Dominant Woman by Lady Green
Shadowplay: S/M Journeys to Ourselves by Dossie Easton
She Comes First by Ian Kerner PhD
She Squirts First by Olivia Bond
She Wants A Loving Female Led Relationship by TeErika Patterson
She’s In Control by MsNN
SlaveCraft – Guy Baldwin
SM 101: A Realistic Introduction by Jay Wiseman
Some Kewl Training In The Evolution Of A Slave by Sandra Clark
Suddenly Dominatrix by Lady Saskia
Thinking Kink by Catherine Scott
This Is My Sub Mission by Nathaniel Colwyn
Tips for My Fellow Male Subs: (or How to Find a Mistress) by Gabriel @ WebWanderer Spiegel
The “Uniquely Series” by Ms. Rika (@Ms_Rika )
Uniquely Rika
Uniquely Us
Uniquely Dominant: Being the Dominant in a D/s Relationship
Venus On Top – Barbara Abernathy
Yes, Mistress: Why Men Crave Female Domination by Alicia Zadig
some recommendations if you are working with a therapist:
Unequal by Design: Counseling Power Dynamic Relationships by Dr. Sabrina Popp & Raven Kaldera
The Leather Couch: Clinical Practice with Kinky Clients by Stafani Goerlich [Various assessment tools and worksheets]
Kink-Affirming Practice: Culturally Competent Therapy from the Leather Chair by Stefani Goerlich
There is controversy and concern that the following author is not a female, as they are portrayed, but in fact a group of men and ProDommes attempting to “sell” a version of femdom that is sub-centric and basically wank-fodder for me. If you choose to read their works, read it with a skeptical mind and a grain of salt.
Female Domination by Elise Sutton
Educational Books Specifically on FLR:
Around Her Finger, Breathing New Life into your Relationship by Addison
At Her Feet, Powering your Femdom Relationship, Tips ideas and wisdom from a longtime female dominant couple by TammyJo Eckhart
At Rika’s Whim – An Inside Look at Being Married To A Dominant Woman by Ms. Rika
Becoming a slave by Jack Rinella
Building the team : cooperative power dynamic relationships by Raven Kaldera
Caring Domination, Being a Caring Domme, Love Caring Relationships and Happy Endings by Cair
Chastity for Men in Relationships: Improve your relationship and fire up your Sex life by letting her manage you by Lee Spencer
The Control Book by Peter Masters
Courage to Submit, The guide for the submissive male seeking a dominant woman by Wallace Vernor
Creating A Personal Protocol by Reilly, Shannon
Cuckolding: The Revolutionary Guide by Rudder, Marisa
Devil in the Details by LT Morrison
Discipline: Adding Rules &Discipline To Your BDSM Relationship by Lloyd Lily
Domestic Discipline – Jules Markham
Dominant Wife Rulebook, Guidelines for the submissive husband by Mistress Jessica
Domination & Submission by Michael Makai
Erotic Intelligence: How to bring passion back into your marriage by Parker, Donna
Erotic Slavehood by Christina Abernathy
Female Domination: An exploration of the male desire for Loving Female Authority by Elise Sutton (Cover by Sardax)
Female Led Relationship: The Couple’s Guide to Female Dominance and Male Submission by Rudder, Marisa
Femdom Experience, A collection of real life FLR personal experiences by Elise Sutton
FemDom Relationship: A Guide To Caring Domination: Transform your Female-led Relationship (FLR) with Courtship and Adoration by Peel, Caroline
GODDESS of Love: The Couple’s Guide to Unlocking Her Inner Sex Goddess by Rudder, Marisa
The Good Wifes Guide to Taking Charge by Rebecca Lawson
Hearts and Collars by Dan and Dawn Williams @DanAndDawn
His Deep Submission, A Loving Couple Explores BDSM and Female Domination by Kim Acton
How to Set up an FLR: A Couple’s Guide to Female Led Relationships by Georgia Ivey Green.
How To Love A Powerful Woman by Te-Erika Patterson
Jonathan Livingston Seagull by Richard Bach
Leading and Supportive Love: The Truth About Dominant and Submissive Relationships by Lyon, Chris M.
Lessons for a Dominant Woman: The Evolution of an Assertive Female by Gaius, William
Living M/s by Dan and Dawn Williams. @DanAndDawn
Love & Obey: The World’s Best Female Led Relationship Guide by Rudder, Ms Marisa
The Loving Dominant by John and Libby Warren
Loving Female Led Relationship Stories: Real Stories from Real People in Loving FLRs by Patterson, Te-Erika
Manual Creation: Defining the Structure of an M/s Household by Kindle, Machele
Master/slave relationships : handbook of theory and practice by Robert Rubel
Mommy’s in Charge: How to Raise Kids in a Female Led Family by Rudder, Marisa
The New Brides Guide to Training Her Husband by Addison
Paradigms of Power by Raven Kaldera
Practical FLR: A Woman’s Guide To Gentle Dominance by Scott, J.M
Protocols: A Variety of Views: Power Exchange Books’ Resource Series by Bob Rubel
The Art of Sensual Female Dominance – Claudia Varrin
Psychodynamic Approach to Female Domination in BDSM Relationships, Sexuality between pleasure and work by Nathalie Lugand
Queendom: The Ultimate Guide to a Female Led Relationship by Rudder, Marisa
Real Men Worship Women: A Gentleman’s Guide to Loving & Obeying Women by Rudder, Marisa
Real Service by Tenpenny, Joshua
Real Women Don’t Do Housework by Fumika Misato
The Sexually Dominant Woman: A Workbook for Nervous Beginners by Lady Green
She Makes The Rules: Create the FLR of his and her dreams! by MsNN
She Wants: A Loving Female Led Relationship by Patterson, Te-Erika
Slavecraft by Guy Baldwin
The Spanking Secret: a female-led relationship by Burke, Ken
submissive: The Complete Guide to Male Submission by Rudder, Marisa
Submit to Her Will a Practical Guide to Establishing a Successful Female Led Relationship by Williams, Kitty
Surrender, Submit, Serve Her: The definitive guide to enacting Female Leadership and embracing the Female Dominated Household by Barrett, Key
Taken In Hand: A Guide to Domestic Discipline, Power Exchange Relationships and Related BDSM Topics by Jolynn Raymond and Rachel Scott
Taking Back Your Marriage by Georgia Ivey Green
Uniquely Rika by Ms. Rika
Uniquely Us by Ms. Rika
Where I am led by Christina Parker
Why Men Are the Way They Are, The Male Female Dynamic by Warren Farrell
Why Men Love FLR: Uncover the Secret Desire of Men to Live in a Female Led Relationship by Rudder, Marisa
Woman’s Guide To a Female Led Relationship by Victoria West
Worshipping Your Wife by Mark Remond